Owen

Owen was born on July 16, 2012, a healthy baby boy. He passed all his newborn tests and we were both sent home with the elation of new parents.

After a few weeks, I noticed that nursing was getting quite difficult, as Owen would nurse for only a few minutes, then fall asleep. As soon as I would burp him, he’d wake up and cry because he was hungry. I was literally nursing him every 45-90 minutes.

I had a gut feeling that something just wasn’t right. I took him to see our pediatrician and she discovered he was not gaining any weight, approaching failure to thrive. She suggested I give him a bottle of pumped milk after nursing and come back in a week, which I did, and he had gained over a pound! At that point, we just assumed I wasn’t making enough milk for him.

Our pediatrician then did a once over on him, since we were so close to his 6 week well child check up. It was then she heard a slight heart murmur. It was so slight she wasn’t even sure she heard it, but she insisted that we go see a pediatric cardiologist.

Miraculously, we were contacted by the cardiologists office the very next day, asking if we could come in due to a cancellation. We decided to go in, thinking this would be a quick visit. Well, we sure were wrong! After an EKG and an ECHO, it was determined that Owen had aortic stenosis and coarctation of the aorta. It was so severe, they couldn’t detect a pulse on the bottom of his feet!

We were immediately referred to Motts Children’s hospital in Ann Arbor, MI and surgery was scheduled for 5 days later. We were in shock as we headed to Ann Arbor, but somehow we both survived the 5 hour open heart surgery. He had the Ross procedure done to correct the stenosis. We were told that his current conduit pulmonary valve will need to be replaced again around his 5th birthday.

We are so very grateful to Dr. Ohye and his team, as well as the nurses at Mott’s for saving Owen’s life, and putting up with crazy, uptight parents full of questions every 5 minutes! So far, Owen has had a great life- full of energy and not showing any signs of slowing down! He has his yearly cardiologist appointment in February, where it will be determined when or if he will require another open heart surgery to replace his conduit pulmonary valve.

Caleb Dougherty

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We found out that our fourth child was going to be born with a heart defect when we learned that his twin had miscarried. Caleb was diagnosed with Tricuspid Atresia and Double Outlet Right Ventricle that resulted in a hypoplastic right ventricle. Caleb was born at U of M Mott Children’s Hospital and had his first surgery at two days old. Things were pretty rough the first week and it was decided that he needed another surgery to replace a shunt a shunt that wasn’t working for him. One week later, he got some new plumbing. After the second surgery, he was stable, but still unable to come off the ventilator. It was determined that the left side of his diaphragm was paralyzed, so the next week, he had surgery to hold the left side of his diaphragm down. He was finally able to come off the ventilator, but he was still in heart failure. After about two months in the hospital, it was determined that Goldilocks needed another tweak to his shunt. The first one was too small, the second was too big and the third was just right. We were able to go home 10 days after downsizing his shunt.

Caleb did very well with his second stage surgery at 5 months old. We struggled with feeding issues, but were finally able to eliminate the NG tube when he was nine months old. He rocked his Fontan surgery at 2 1/2 years, coming home in just 7 days. We joke that he is getting better at having heart surgery.

Now, Caleb is doing amazing! He is a very strong, active and happy six year old. He loves dirt, mud, trucks, and destroying things. He is in kindergarten and loves gym and recess.

Ethan Kolodzinski

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When our twins were born, it wasn’t ideal timing. Labor started at 39 weeks, so we knew they probably wouldn’t need NICU, but we were moving into a new house that day. As we drove to the hospital, friends and family descended on our place to move us, so we figured we’d have the babies, and be home by the next night. We thought we’d leisurely deal with the crazy mess of a move over the next couple weeks. We were very, very wrong.

When the boys were born, Lucas was fine, but Ethan didn’t pink up. We were able to hold him for a total of about 10 minutes before he was rushed up to the NICU. He was found to have a hole in one lung, which they were able to resolve, but his condition didn’t improve. After four hours of trying everything they could, the staff suspected a more serious problem than they could treat, even with a Level III NICU. When he was 8 hours old, he arrived at Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin under suspicion of a heart defect. He went straight to the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit, where he was quickly diagnosed with an obstructed supracardiac total anomalous pulmonary venous return. At 3:30 a.m. and only 11 hours old, our brand new baby was wheeled away for emergency open heart surgery. If he had not undergone the surgery when he did, he only would have survived a few more hours.

Ethan’s defect is rare, and not one that is easily diagnosed before birth, so it was like a bomb going off in the middle of our lives. None of our other children had ever had any kind of serious illness or surgery, so we were completely unprepared for something like this. He spent two weeks in the CICU, and another week and a half on another floor. Those were the hardest three and a half weeks of our lives. It was gut-wrenching to sit next to Ethan, unable to hold him, while snuggling his perfectly healthy twin. His siblings desperately wanted him to come home, and it broke our hearts to tell them over and over, “Not yet.” The moment we walked out of that hospital with both our boys is one we will never forget.

Outside of weighing less than his twin, and scars he totes, you’d never know what a rough start Ethan had. The boys are 18 months old now, and we cannot imagine what our, and especially Lucas’s life would be like without him. It is a miracle how we have gone from being hours shy of losing him, to him being able to live a virtually normal life. Half of our dynamic duo wouldn’t be here, if not for the skills of Drs. Jim Tweddell and Mike Mitchell, and the rest of the amazing cardiac team that Children’s has assembled.

We are so incredibly blessed to live when, and where, there was the knowledge and technology available to save our sweet little boy.

Adam McDade

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I will never forget hearing my husband ask the doctor “Why is he purple? Why isn’t he breathing?” immediately after Adam was born.

He was our third child, the other two were born healthy babies and we had no reason to believe anything would be different with Adam. However, he was quickly taken out of the room for testing. Within 6 hours of being born Adam and I had both been discharged and were heading to UF/Shands so that more testing could be done. Before they transported Adam they brought him into the room while he was in his mobile ICU. This little boy who I had not yet been able to hug and kiss looked very peaceful and content but the tubes, wires, bandages made for such an unexpected scene. Inside I kept thinking “Everything is going to be fine, the staff is just being extremely thorough but everything will be fine. He probably has a small hole in his heart, I’m sure we’ll be sent home with medicine and the hole will close on it’s own.”

Five hours after arriving at Shands, two doctors sat us down. “Your son has a severe heart defect.”

Oh, those words.

Those words were so heavy.

They told us Adam had tricuspid atresia. His tricuspid valve never formed and sub sequentially his right ventricle had never formed.

“Is he going to die?”
“Will we ever take him home from the hospital?”
“Will he ever meet his older brother and sister?”

Of course these questions immediately overwhelmed me, although I was too scared to consider asking. After the long discussion Adam and his anatomy all I could ask without being scared of the answer was “What advice can you give us?” As one doctor stared blankly I will never forget how the other popped in “You’re going to have three kids, you will love them all the same, one will just have a different heart.” And with that response I was immediately filled with hope. Hope that Adam wasn’t going to die, hope that we would take him home from the hospital and hope that he would meet his brother and sisters.

Adam was blessed with great anatomy as far as TA babies are concerned, he was able to skip what is typically the first of three procedures. On October 22, 2014, four days old, Adam was discharged with no oxygen, no medicine, nothing. We had weekly cardiology appointments and the plan was for him to have his first open heart surgery around 4 months. During this waiting period Adam thrived, he was doing a good job putting on weight and staying healthy.

At 14 weeks old he had his first open heart surgery, the Glenn. There were ups and downs but after just 6 days he was discharged. The surgery was tough, the days and nights post surgery were even harder. However, all of that was finally behind us and we were excited to live life with surgery behind us and Adam in a stable condition.

He will have another open heart surgery, the Fontan, when he is about 2 years old.

We feel so honored to be Adam‘s parents, this little guy is truly amazing.

Christopher Memoli

Growing up with a Rare Congenital Heart Disease-Christopher Memoli is a survivor of a major heart defect known as Congenitally Corrected Transposition of the Great Arteries (CCTGA). He had his first open heart surgery at 19 years old and his second open heart surgery at 44 years old. Despite the challenges of his condition, he enjoys a full life and is an inspiration for thousands of individuals facing challenges in life. Christopher graduated from Boston University. He is now a successful community development financier in New York City with a deep commitment to philanthropy. He resides with his wife and two children in Westchester County, New York.

Christopher maintains a fierce determination and positive attitude to conquer all the difficulties he encounters. He is a second-degree black belt karate, an avid golfer, a talented drummer and a loving father and husband. He is also a member of the Adult Congenital Heart Association.

​In addition, Christopher is a passionate author revealing his experience dealing with a heart condition since his early childhood. He tells his story through the life of Harry, offering an empathetic and inspirational voice to those faced with adversity. Please check http://www.harrysheart.com or http://www.fastpencil.com/publications/7269-Open-Your-Heart-to-Harry An illustrated children’s book series by Christopher Memoli and illustrated by Adrienne Riso. In his first book “Open Your Heart to Harry”, you will meet Harry, a seven year old boy who has recently learned that he was born with a major heart defect. He always had difficulty in keeping up with his friends when playing physical activities and now he is beginning to understand why. Join Harry on his journey as he deals with first learning of his heart condition, functioning within his peer group and overcoming the challenges he faces being a cardiac patient.

Jacob Kilby

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I want to introduce you to an amazing young man who will change the way you look at the world.

Jacob Kilby is a young, 19 year old local San Diego surfer who is facing a major health challenge. You often hear about many children and adults that are battling cancer or diabetes, but congenital heart defects seem to be few and far between. Heart disease is a major problem for both the new, young, and mature people of the world. Many times when you do hear about unhealthy hearts it’s in reference to a person who has lived many years and perhaps did not treat their heart as good as they should of. Those stories that start with a newborn baby who will have his first open heart surgery at the age of 5 days old are not plastered all over the media. I want to make a difference for the San Diego community and possibly beyond, by educating and promoting organ donation awareness through the story of Jacob Kilby’s heart.

Jacob was born with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome where the left side of his heart did not fully develop. This is a rare condition that is one of those congenital diseases that we don’t know how or why develops in a certain fetus. We can’t blame it on how a woman treated her body or what she did or did not eat while pregnant. It’s an unfortunate circumstance that happens and Jacob was born on Sept. 8 1995 with this disease. He was born strong and ready to take on the four open heart surgery attempts at fixing his heart, all of which failed. Jacob was very lucky to receive a life-saving heart transplant in 1998 that saved him just in the nick of time.

Jacob has lived a wonderful life. He was able to do almost anything any other boy his age could. Despite the daily doses of anti-rejection meds and the numerous doctor visits, Jacob sailed through school and was liked by everyone. His family adores him and treasures him as if he were a diamond. His smile shines so bright that he truly must be a treasure. So, the news of his need for a new heart came as a devastating shock to all of us, including him just a few months ago.

As the days have passed, I have learned a great deal about the world of organ transplantation. I learned that Jacob is on the wait list at a stage “2” where he really has no chance of getting a new heart. Those who receive organs are those who are on the list the longest and those who are the sickest. So, I guess things haven’t changed in that respect in the 17 years that he’s had his donor heart. His family watched his frail little body diminish and lose oxygen right before our eyes. And here we are again.

The amount of organs available for transplant is not even closely comparable to the amount of people on the wait list in need of an organ. There are currently 123,000 people nation-wide on the national organ transplant wait list. Eight people die every day waiting for an organ that will never come. Millions of families wait in agony every day, never knowing if their loved one even has a future.  Please help us create more opportunities for more futures for people with congenital heart defects like Jacob Kilby.

Aunt Charity

Jack Radandt

Jack 5 Jackson was born on Easter Sunday, 2001.  We brought our perfect 8lb 6oz baby home from the hospital and enjoyed two days with our new little one.  All seemed well; Jack was a wonderful, healthy baby.  At least that’s how it appeared when we were discharged from the hospital.

Things went well for the first several days at home.  However, on the evening of his fifth day of life he felt cool to the touch, became fussy and wouldn’t nurse.  I knew something was wrong when he began making a funny noise with every exhale.  Jack wasn’t improving, so I woke my husband Jason and we decided we needed to take Jack immediately to the emergency room.  Never could we fathom the journey we were about to embark upon. A journey that would last, not just days, but years, and now we know, the rest of his and our lives…

After several minutes of trying to save our baby, they told us his heart was severely compromised and asked if we wanted pastoral care, obviously insinuating they believed our child could die.  At that moment we realized it was very serious.  He was baptized in the emergency room right before the transport team came to take him to Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin.

There, we were told he had a very complex congenital heart defect; Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. This meant his left ventricle was severely underdeveloped.  He would need several open heart surgeries to reconstruct his heart.  Because he had such severe physical trauma when he was just five days old, his organs needed time to recover.  This created such intense instability in Jack that they had to prolong the life-saving heart reconstruction surgery until he got stronger.

We were overwhelmed with this news, with equipment, monitors, tubes and lines.  It is a life no parent should have to go through, but it was now our life.  The hardest thing as a parent to accept was they couldn’t just “fix” him and he would be fine; he would have to deal with this his entire life.  Finally, at ten days old, Jack was ready for the first stage of reconstruction.  He recovered well and successfully had all three reconstructive operations by the time he was three years old.  Jack 3 While each surgery was a struggle for our little boy, he triumphed through each one and became stronger.  Other than daily medications and bi-annual cardiology visits, Jack lived a very normal life for the next 8 years.  Most people were surprised to know he had congenital heart disease let alone a very complex, life-threatening one.  While Jack was restricted physically (i.e. he couldn’t play tackle sports and fatigued seemingly earlier than other children), he excelled at school socially and academically.

Eleven years later our life was again to become a roller coaster.  At a routine clinic visit, we were told there was a change in his echo and that Jack’s heart was failing.  He didn’t really have any symptoms of heart failure so once again; this came as a complete shock to us all.  The news was much harder to process, accept, and adapt to this time because we had an eleven year old who was very aware of what was going on.  At lunch after that visit he asked us if he was going to die and also what percentage there was that he could die.  It took everything in me not to scream and sob to answer his questions.  From that appointment on, Jack’s deterioration was rapid, as his heart was failing quite quickly.  Within a month we were admitted to the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit (CICU) at Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin.  A few days later, they told us he would most likely need a heart transplant. He was put on the heart transplant list shortly thereafter.

Every day in the CICU I watched him getting weaker.  I was afraid he would over exert himself doing simple daily tasks like walking, showering or eating.  After one tough day, I admitted to myself that maybe it wasn’t God’s plan for him to make it through this. I was watching him fade away.  Every time I looked at him I would try to memorize his expressions, his smile, his hands and the sound of his laugh…everything about him.  Preparing myself that memories might be all I would have.

After two months of trying different medications and therapies, Jack continued to deteriorate physically.  Mentally however, he was as sharp as ever.  He was well aware of what medications he needed, always had questions for the doctors and kept up on his homework.  However, it was eventually decided that Jack needed more support for his failing heart.  The physicians caring for Jack decided to place a Heartware Ventricular Assist Device (HVAD) in him. The HVAD is a mechanical pump implanted in the heart to help blood flow in people with weakened hearts.  This device was necessary to bridge the time until a donor heart was available.  He was the first single ventricle child in the United States to have this device and second in the world. It was terrifying to know this was the first time they were placing this device in a child with Jack’s physiology, but there was no other choice. We had to place Jack in the best position possible to accept a new heart when one became available.

Jack 1Jack successfully had the HVAD placed on December 23rd.  He was slowly recovering from surgery when we were informed that a donor heart was available for him. He was so excited that he cried.  All he wanted was a normal life and this was his ticket home. Shortly thereafter, we received horrible news—it was too risky for Jack to take that heart because he had developed a large amount of antigens during surgery.  The hardest part was delivering that news to a little boy that just wanted to go home.  He was devastated. The
emotional blow was overwhelming.

The next day, they began therapies to try and lower his antigen levels.   As Jack continued to recovered they began talking about sending him home on the VAD–another first.  Jack 6After two months in the CICU with the device, Jack was able to come home.  We cared for him at home and had frequent visits to the hospital for immunosuppression therapy and clinic.  Jack thrived being home; he gained weight, grew taller, and eventually went back to school.  Three months after he was discharged from the hospital we received a call that there was heart for Jack.  I reluctantly asked how likely we were to accept this heart and was told it was a negative cross match (a perfect match).  On May 20th Jack received his heart and went home eleven days later.  He is doing great and even joined the basketball team, something he was unable to do before.

Life in our home has returned to normal.  A “new normal” where Jack is able to function better than he ever has.  Although he will be on medication for the rest of his life, and we now live at a bit of “heightened” sensitivity or awareness as we adapted to Jack living with a new heart, we are thankful every single day for every single breath he takes.

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Noah Bella

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Despite enduring four heart surgeries and six cath procedures since birth, our daughter, ten-year-old Noah Bella has never let her Congenital Heart Disease define who she is. Noah has loads of personality: charisma, magnetism, strength, character, and an ever-present mindset to do the right thing. This has given her the desire and commitment to help other heart families. It was during her last open heart surgery at the age of five that she was able to comprehend how meaningful it was to receive a thoughtful care package from the Hopeful Hearts Foundation. She immediately took comfort in this gift and wanted to see other children like herself feel as special as she did.

Since her last three open heart surgeries in 2009, she has created Noah’s Festival of Life, a carnival-themed fundraiser for kids and their families in an effort to help heart families across the country with financial assistance. With the help of the Hopeful Hearts Foundation, she has been able to fulfill this dream of hers. Today, Noah’s Festival of Life is in its 4th year. She continues to be an inspiration and an example to many people on how to lift the spirit and make a positive difference in the lives of heart families throughout the country. Noah’s mission is to help as many heart families in need by providing financial assistance for such expenses as travel, lodging, food, hospital parking, as well as care packages for families during their child’s hospitalization to aid in comfort and healing.

If it’s not stressful enough to see a child undergo complex heart surgery, the additional burden of having to pay for these expenses during this difficult time is insurmountable for many. As a heart family we are doing everything we can to ease this strain and allow these families to focus all their energy on their child.

Buczko Twins

Buczko (1)Our twins, Aiden and Madison were born at The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia in September 2012 at just 31 weeks gestation, both with critical congenital heart defects. 

Aiden was born with an isolated left pulmonary artery and right aortic arch. He had his first, and hopefully, only, open heart surgery at three weeks old.

Madison had Tetralogy of Fallot with pulmonary atresia and multiple major aortopulmonary collaterals (MAPCAs). She had her first cardiac catheterization within 24 hours of being born. She has had two open heart surgeries (MAPCA unifocalization, April 2013; VSD closure and conduit replacement, December 2013). She will need several more catheterizations, as well as additional heart surgeries as she gets older. 


Our “miracle twins,” now 20 months old, have been through more in their short lives than any child should. Between the two of them, they have had three open heart surgeries; five cardiac catheterizations; one eye surgery; three hospitalizations for illness; numerous echocardiograms, x-rays, lung perfusion scans, barium swallow studies, and other tests; many, many doctors’ and physical therapy appointments; countless prescriptions; and more than $15,000 in out-of-pocket medical expenses. In addition, last fall we learned that Aiden had a brain injury called periventricular leukomalacia (PVL) and cerebral palsy, most likely a result of being born premature with a CHD. 

However, to look at our kids yoBuczko (2)u would barely notice anything is different about them. They are beautiful and happy and are making incredible progress! Aiden has high muscle tone in his legs and feet from his PVL, requiring the use of orthotic braces, but he is walking. Madison had vocal cord damage after her first open heart surgery and her speech was delayed for a while, but recently scored above average in communication in a developmental assessment.

Norah’s Story

Norah was born in 2009, seemingly healthy. At two weeks old she was hospitalized at Blank Children’s Hospital in Des Moines, IA for having had a UTI. She was referred to the University of Iowa Children’s hospital and diagnosed w Grade IV Bilateral Vesicoureteral Reflux. After a year of prophylactic antibiotic The Lord healed her little body and she never ended up needing the expected surgical correction. Yay! 

In this same year she was diagnosed w/ a benign heart murmur, an ASD that was expected to close. It was at a sick child visit, nearly a year after the diagnosis, that a doctor recommended we revisit the cardiologist. At this point her ASD was reported to be too large to be patched via the Cath. Lab. and she would need open heart surgery soon as her heart was dilated. She was put on Digoxin while we nailed down the details for surgery. 

We were scared and didn’t even know what kind of questions to ask to better prepare ourselves for what was about to happen. Both my husband I and felt like we were responsible to make an educated decision with the doctors help, but found ourselves wondering where to even start. I figured meeting with the surgeon would be a good place to start. 

In our meeting w/ the surgeon he did a good job of explaining how he would construct the missing septum using her pericardium tissue and assured us that he was the man for the job. When I asked him if we had any other options or places to go to get a second opinion, his response was something of the sort; She will be just fine right here. This type of surgery is like the appetizer before the main course. This was a very simple surgery for him to do and it will be one of several for the day.

His response bothered me. I wanted to hear statistics, some kind of hard facts as why I could trust this man w my daughter. For pete’s sake he was talking to a Math major and Air Traffic Controller. It never sat right w me that he never directly answered my question about a second opinion, but I attibuted a lot of those unsettled feelings to just being afraid of my daughter having to undergo open heart surgery.

Norah had OHS Jan. 2012 at age 2.5. We thank The Lord that we are one of those families that have a happy ending to the story. Norah’s surgery was a success and is considered cured. Indeed the surgeon was skilled at doing this repair and we felt blessed. But, I have to be honest. When I found out that there was another facility right here in our state that had a children’s hospital and pediatric thoracic surgeon. I felt deceived and that I was forced into making an ignorant decision on purpose. I don’t want to sound ungrateful for what our surgeon did for Norah. We are forever grateful to that man. I just wish we were given more information prior and allowed to make a more educated decision for Norah. If this story had not had such a “happy ending” I can’t imagine the pain, anger, and guilt I would potentially carry.